In recent times, my sister and I are both considering breast augmentation. Now with this, it plagues my psyche. I have considered arguments both for and against in making my ultimate decision to become more endowed. Ultimately, I have decided to do it. And this is why:
- My boyfriend wants me to have bigger boobs. Now normally, I wouldn’t even consider this as a reasonable argument for; however I agree, they do need to be bigger. I have a large frame and small breasts in proportion with my frame.
- I want bigger boobs.
- I have done the research and know the type and size I want. I am going to be a D, I am going under the muscle for 2 reasons: I do intend on exercising more, even once I hit my goal to even go in for the consultations anyway; if I do ever have another child, I would like to be able to breast feed.
- I want to feel better about myself. I have low self-esteem and a lot of it stems from my breast size. When I wear my bra that makes my boobs look two sizes bigger than they are, I feel good about myself, I feel confident. I want to have that ALL the time.
The only reason I can think of regarding why I shouldn’t do it (besides price of course) is: do I really want to alter my self. I know plastic surgery is taboo and that the debate against it concerns the alteration of what you were born with and that you should love yourself for who you are and what you look like, yada yada yada . . . I’m reminded of an old TLC song:
My idea is this: If having bigger boobs makes me feel better about myself, why not do it. Once I lose the weight I intend to, I’m going to need a tummy tuck anyway. My skin has little to no elasticity, which means no matter the amount of weight I lose and the exercises I do to work that skin back into place, chances are it won’t and I will have flab hanging down all over the place. I don’t want that, its unattractive. I’d rather be fat and not have skin hanging all over the place than be skinny with an overhang of skin. It’s very unappealing. While I’m at it, might as well get those boobs put in right?
So, my decision is made. Once I’m a size 14 for a year, I am getting a boob job, with or without the help of my boyfriend.
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Girls with lower self esteem have more time for cooking.
HAHA, so true, so true.
I’d just like to add that I think it’s great that you are looking to become increasingly healthy. Overall fitness is more important than anything else when judging the attractiveness of a woman from the neck down.